I came across this article, "Sporting Parents", the other day from my old teammate and former colleague, Erik Healy. Erik is the very successful head water polo coach of Loyola High School and Trojan Water Polo Club.
While this article isn't necessarily weightlifting related, I do sports performance coaching for a number of high school and youth athletes, and I agree with the author that parents play a critical role in the development of a young athlete, so long as they don't overstep their boundaries and understand their role. After all, it's the parents who pay for coaching and club fees, drive their kids to and from training, practices and games, etc. The role of the parent, however, goes much deeper than finances and logistics.
The author of the article makes a simple, yet great distinction of both coach and parent. To briefly summarize, the coach's role is to prepare the athlete physically, while the parent's role is to develop values, time management skills, and responsibility. You could say that the parent helps to develop the "intangibles" that coaches always talk about. Parents are also responsible for being as supportive as they can.
Can a coach help develop values, time management, and responsibility in athletes? Sure, but if these traits are taught and reinforced at home, it can make the job of the sport or performance coach much easier because it allows the coaches to focus primarily on physical development.
If you're a parent, do you consider yourself a "sporting parent"? If so, what are you doing exactly to fulfill that responsibility. If not, what can you do better to aid in the development of your child's athletic development?